I Want to Punch America in the Face. Alright, it's one thing for the media to go crazy over a new disease and claim doomsday because of it, we're used to that, it's normal. We kinda just shake our collective head and &he…

Atheism is Not a Religion "You're just like us! Atheism is a religion too, it has a set of dogmas, a particular worldview, it tells people how to act, etc etc. So if you criticize religion you're just being… revel…

Swine Flu - The Real Truth!! Surely most of us are well aware of the swine flu that raise a lot of concern worldwide. But very few seems to know about the background of the flu, and how does it started. The un… ma…

Five Things That Make You a Douche-Tastic Douche I. You Refer to Yourself in the Third Person There are two circumstances where referring to yourself in the third person is acceptable:1. Your name is Elmo, and you live o…

6 Questions That Are Just Fine to Ask a Woman (Not a Girl) This is a response to the post, "6 Things To Never Say to a Girl." 1). Are you okay? Please, please men, don't stop asking this question. It shows that you do…

Love Doesn't Fail, People Do The letters say, "I love you". They're filled with passion, love, and lust for one another. Desire. Counting down the days, the hours, the seconds until they have true love. "T… My…

The end of Innocence Is there one moment when we lose this innocence? A sequence of moments that add together to steal it away? Can we ever get it back? Innocence defined: the state of being unsul… repressedw…

The 8 Phases of Dating The First Date, The Exciting Phase, The Comfortable Phase, The *Too* Comfortable Phase, The Decline, The Breakup, Getting Back Together, Marriage datingish

delete me about a year ago one of my close friends broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years. for everyone who knew them personally it came as a big shock because of their history together. she… mi1kandcerea1

I use to be scared of Natural Disasters Everyone had a fear when little. Some for example are heights, spiders, or so on. As a child you are usually scared of something that can kill you. Well apparently my fear was Natu…

6 Things To Never Say To A Guy This is a response to the entry, "6 Things To Never Say To a Girl. "Things you should never say to a boy:1). Your friend is hot. It works both ways.2). You look like your dad. Beca……

5 reasons why I wouldn't care if my wife wore a burka My wife wears Shalwar Kameez. But I really would not mind if she wore a Hijab, Nijab or even controversial to western culture Burka. Since I am talking about such a…

Things Our Cat Has Rejected. (Part I of Infinity) 1. Ikea Cat House (or Haus if your Euro kitteh prefers) We thought: What a svelte addition to our decor, and such a lovely nest to aid in elevated bird-watching! She…

Why Do Guys Like Tina Fey? I like Tina Fey too. She's really funny. What I don't understand is why every guy I talk to has a crush on her. Again, she's funny, but what else? A guy friend explained that sh… thep…

My Teen Pregnancy Rant If you have sex you could get pregnant. If you get pregnant, you will most likely have a baby. Come on young ladies. Please, please be serious with yourself. Are you REALLY matur… AlterEgo…

A letter to "Your Mom" Dear Mrs. (insert last name here) a.k.a. "Your mom", I'm writing to apologize for all the verbal abuse and slander that has been dealt to you in recent years. Yes, teenage boys are… thecommo…

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby I was watching a talk show today when I was folding laundry when I was taken back by the subject. Talking about sex with your child. They had two 14 year olds that are "in love" on… moma…

I want to walk in THEIR shoes! How many times have we looked at someone and thought "Wow, I’d like to be in THEIR shoes?" Even if it's just for a minute, we wonder what it would be like. Here we are having a ro……

"I love Jesus", by an Atheist O and I were talking one day at his store about religion, I told him I thought Jesus was a cool dude. We are both atheist mind you. O agrees with me. Any dude who tries to raise hi… P…

5 Things Women Try To Change About Men But Never Can Women have an innate habit to want to change a man. Well ladies, it's tough to change a man when he's already been doing the same thing for years. But keep trying,…

Your Home for Sports on Xanga! Hello all you sports fans. I'd like to welcome you to opening day here at BFNSports2Debate. Over the past few days I have been guaging interest in a sports site here on xanga. The ……

On Dealing With Life's Problems Some time ago, I bought an exercise bike. Some assembly required, it said. When I got it home, I opened the box and dumped about 200 parts on the floor. I looked at the instruct……

10 TV/Movie Characters Every Guy Should Want To Date Let's pretend you could enter any TV or Movie's world and date one of the characters. I don't mean they come to your world and date you - I mean you literally enter t…

A Simple Guideline to Attending Shows For those of you who are veterans to attending concerts and shows I have no doubt in my mind that you have, on your own accord, learned most of these rules already. For those of yo&h…

"We met online." Why is it that some people are afraid to tell people that they meet/met people online? Is it really that weird and abnormal to? I've been on the Internet since I was 12 and I hav… jigg

How to Crush Your Child's World in One Sentence We all have had "the talk" with someone. Be it about sex, where babies come from, where the relationship is going, break ups and so on. This weekend I had to have the "East…

I'm Trollin' Ya (Disturbia Parody) - NSFW On my way to work the other day, the song "Disturbia" by Rihanna came on the radio, and because I'm somewhat of a computer nerd, I started substituting the lyrics with "I'm Troll…

L.O.L. I have noticed that this acronym has started to move into actual speech. I have two reactions to it. One, I flashback to 7th grade. Secondly, I think where did vocabulary go? And w… StrangerThanYouDreamt

Things No One Should Ever Say to a Pregnant Woman I am 21 weeks pregnant. I am emotional, hormonal and my patience level went from 100% to 33.33%. Here is a list of things you don't want to say to me: 1. "This will look…

Integrity On The Road To Nowhere I'm always appreciative of those who leave honest (and thought provoking) comments to my various rantings. I have learned a lot from what I've read, as well as what I've written. B&hellip…

Family I am kind of obsessed with those families that all look alike. You know the ones where the kids are all like miniature clones of the parents? Where you can look at them and know wi… girl_lost_in_the_dark

Tree Grows in Man's Lung After Inhaling a Seed I came across this article this morning: MOSCOW, RUSSIA -- Here's a story that you just can't make up.Doctors in the Urals region of Russia were amazed when they found a fi…

Create the Perfect Love One of the biggest lessons I've learned in the past year was taught to me by my favorite author, Tom Robbins, in a book called Still Life with Woodpecker. The story itself is a lov… AibellF…

Velociraptor Awareness Day For those who don't know, Today is Velociraptor Awareness Day. The purpose of this day is to recognize and raise awareness of those who have died from velociraptor attacks. Also, t… Drug…

What Fast Food Really Looks Like I'm one of the most healthiest people among my family and friend but occasionally when I see a McDonald's ad, I get excited to get one. But when I get the actual product it looks n&hellip…

I don't remember what your voice sounded like Some days I'm perfectly fine, some days it hard to suppress the black hole in my stomach, growing bigger till it reaches my throat, eventually filling my entire body with sha…

Can't get close to him without having sex You'd be surprised how often I hear that. Sorry, folks. Sex is not a synonym for closeness. "Well how close can you be without having sex?" Well, let me tell you. He likes…

How to Win Her Heart In 10 (admittedly not so) Easy Steps A friend of mine asked me for advice on how to get the girl of his dreams. I thought I would share with the rest of the male population out there who are clueless…

Xanga Teen Writing Contest: $100 Prize! I'm announcing a special Xanga-wide contest for teenagers only. You must have been 19 years of age or younger as of January 1st, 2009. Too often, Xanga teens, people act as if you…

Why I'm jealous of men... The hubby and I were having one of our early morning in-depth philosophical discussions today. During this discussion he mentioned he wishes he was more like a female in order to..… Anamc…

What Happens To Your Body If You Drink A Coke Right Now? Have you ever wondered why Coke comes with a smile? It's because it gets you high. They took the cocaine out almost a hundred years ago. You know why? It was redun…

I sold my soul to the Devil Ever since I have started to work at the greatest coffee store in Canada, I hate the smell, thought, sight of coffee. I hate anything that is actually made in that store and even t… fly…

Friends like That "Wait. Was this yours or mine?" "Mine. You don't drink that brand of coffee, remember?" "Oh ... right." There's a long pause, "I have a brand of coffee?" "Mmmhmm." Two eight… into_the_lens…

Note To Ladies: Coach Bags Are So Over! Okay ladies, I'm sorry to have to do this, but let me get this off my chest. Coach is officially over!!! I know that's a bold statement, and I'm going to take the time to clari…

a list of grievances, for you ladies stop being so cute. i am a complete sucker for your womanly magic(s) and i don't like it. i've got things to do and places to be. i can't afford being distracted right now, so s&he…

To My Husband, with Love I fell for my husband the second I saw him. This was back when I was a sophomore in high school and for some reason thought my hair would look good like this: In other… Lultim…

Unique Japanese Fashion Trend Japan is well known for its unique fashion sense so it shouldn't come as a major shock to see a fashion trend as different as this emerge in the 90s. While Americans were wearing b… t…

Separation of Church and State So as we all know, yesterday was Easter. The high holy day on the Christian calendar (it's true look it up). Every Easter I head to my grandmother's house and hang out with my fami……

Blog Pet Peeves Everyone has a right to doll up their blogs as they wish but these are some things that send my pointer sprinting for the little red X at the top-right corner of my window. … ikilledsanity

Vegetarianism is a Teen Eating Disorder Now! Some health news seem informative and interesting, but I think that things are just a little out of hand. New studies and research are pointing towards believing that vegetar…

Icing on the cake When I was nine, Grammie got me going on something that I have since taken over from her due to the arthritis in her hands. I give you- Cake decorating fun with Jess. This is t… LostInTheLyri…

10 Things You Need to Know When You Rent Movies I work in a video store. I don't really mind it. I see a lot of pretty cool movies before they come out and it is easy, but keeps me busy at the same time. The only problem…

His Skin Condition Frightens Me I'm going to tell you about a 2 and half year old boy who has a skin condition at the playschool I work at.On my first day at the workplace, I knew nothing about the kids, the staf……

Movies that messed up my imagination as a kid If you grew up in the 80s and 90s like me, you probably had a pretty overactive imagination. Maybe you used to wish you could walk through your mirror or fly your bed across…

"So, What Did You Major In?" Urgh. Over time, I've started to hate hearing someone ask me that question. It's not that I'm ashamed of what I majored in; it's the way that some people obviously start to judge… Ro…

What a Brit Forgets About America Things I LOVE about the United States Your food portions: You guys seriously know how to eat. If you ask for a large you get a LARGE. No messing about. We have measly peasant porti&hell…

I Want A Simpler Life A lot of people are building small homes. In extreme cases, VERY SMALL. I have long wanted to build a nice-looking house on a trailer, or adapt a yard barn or garage plan as a sm… lonelywan…

ma·tri·ar·chy ma·tri·ar·chy 1. A social system in which the mother is head of the family.2. A family, community, or society based on this system or governed by women.I was browsing through my Ma… ally_bay_bee

Stuff Christians Like: Joking About Sex During Wedding Ceremonies Fine, I'll say it: We Christians need to agree to a one sex joke maximum during our wedding ceremonies. Seriously, let's make that happen today. I don't…

Regret. When I was in grade school and middle school, there was a boy in my class that I never really got to know. He was a bit pudgy, with short blonde hair and a voice caught between bab… blanket_attack

Losing A Friend Her behavior was off. I don't know how else to explain it. I remember the first time I knew without a doubt that her problem had became something serious but looking back, I can … MySecretLoveAff…

Are There Girls That Have Trouble Talking to Guys? Being that I am a girl, I always felt like there were more awkward guys than there were awkward girls. What I mean by that is that there are more boys who have trouble d…

How to Give Constructive Criticism I have always had a problem being negative and putting people down, and hurting their feelings. I always tried to tell people what they're doing wrong, and perhaps even telling the&hell…

Stuff White People Like--And I Hate. My brother and I grew up analyzing and making fun of both Filipino and American culture, but the best jokes were always at the latter's expense. The list found here is the best po&he…

Hey Women, Wear Skirts! There used to be a whole dress section in department stores, but not anymore! I looked, and looked, and looked, there were barely any dresses or skirts, and the ones that were ther… lovelyi…

5 Things Women Love That Guys Need To Have Picture this: your girlfriend comes over or you bring someone home but your place looks like crap. You don't know what to do, and you didn’t think that far ahead. But if you ha…

How far. You always ask your friends how far would they go for you. Would they help you when you were down and crying, or in a fight, or would they loan you money when you were broke. You a… DommieGirlLovie

Gay: A semantic adventure. "Gay" has become a versatile word. Depending on the context, it does triple duty: As a quaint "happy," as a mainstream "homosexual," and as a colloquial "lame." Because of the ongo… hugi…

OH, INTERNET...50 Sexting Acronyms Parents Should Know NetLingo came up with a list of acronyms that should be red flags for parents if they see their kids texting/IMing/smoke signaling them. While I respect their trying…

If My Father Would Have Stayed. My life would have been completely different. For example: I’d be writing to you in Spanish and instead of ‘would have’ being our subject it would be, my third trip around Euro……

The Face Of Desperation I will come right out and say it. I am lonely I'm not overly willing to admit to this for a couple of reasons. First, because to admit that I am lonely requires admitting to mys… Lost_In…

The 10 Most Annoying People On Airplanes Sometimes I think to myself that I would rather dispense a kidney stone through my urethra than deal with some of the people who board airplanes on a daily basis in the United Sta…

There Is No Such Thing As "Reverse" Racism There is only racism, and it is never right. I was thinking today, about how it seems that one must be a minority to celebrate one's culture. There are exceptions of course, b…

Hate to break it to you.... Looking up at the ceiling I imagined the vision of her, with her head over the toilet. *shudders* ~ 'some women can be sickening' I thought. She comes back downstairs, and I'm ne… bl…

Holding number two before bed can give you nightmares?! I just awoke from lying next to one of my good buddies (no really, we're just good friends) on a futon in Boston and we were discussing how poorly we'd slept. We…

Bloggers You Should Be Reading Over my time on Xanga, I’ve been quite lucky to encounter some great, engaging, thoughtful, and thought-provoking writers. And, because I like to share, I’m going to tell you abou……

How to treat a woman: A confession Do you truly know how to treat a woman? Do you know her favourite things? Do you cherish her or simply say you do? Do you know how to please her and how to protect her? Do you know&hell…

How to Attract Better Guys MSN published an article on how to "position yourself to meet Mr. Right instead of Mr. Right Now" - check it out and tell us what you think! However, there are other things you c… dati…

Victoria, your secret SUCKS! Dear Victoria's Secret Bra Designers, Thank you for making lots of really cute bras. I have several of yours and for the most part, I enjoy them. I have a black t-shirt bra that is… Ha…

Lowering the Legal US Drinking Age, Will It Make A Difference? The topic of proper drinking age was brought up the other day while I was talking with a group of friends. Some argued that even with the legal age being 21,…

Interview #1: An interview with ASM and Snippie This is the first installment of my new series. They will be a series of interviews with two Xanga personalities at a time, so they can interact with each other. Some you w…

Ever wish you were someone else? The only love I was ever part of, was my family. I was a real mummy's boy, I never wanted to go to school, I just wanted to stay at home with mum. My dad was never at home much due&hellip…