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  • He Can Mess Around with Other People But I Can't I have been seeing this guy for about seven months now. I have always brought up the question of why we aren't dating yet. He always avoids the question by changing the s…

  • A New Road and An Old Barn I try to learn a new road every week. Sometimes I have my eye on the one I want to explore for a while and other times it is an impulse. I love back roads. I also like getting a … seed…

  • Racial Equality (Warning: due to the controversial nature of this post, readers discretion is advised.) There seems in my mind to be only two ways we can all be completely racially equal. … Simbathe2nd

  • I Am Much Too Large to be Considered an Anorexic I feel so utterly alone. I don't know my weight because I tossed my scale a couple months ago. How stupid of me. I've continued to purge everything I eat, but I don't lo…

  • A Repost For Ed McMahon on His Death Bed. Once when I was seven, maybe eight, I became fixated- concretely convinced that my mom and I were going to win the Publisher Clearing House Sweepstakes. I cried, begged my moth…

  • College Majors to Avoid at All Cost Choosing a major in college can seem like a daunting task, because whatever course of study you choose is what you will inevitably be forced to do for the rest of your professional&hel…

  • How Can I Get A Psycho off My Back? I recently started an internship with a company that everyone else would associate with a certain character. So far, I love my job and because it's a big company, I'm still meeting&hel…

  • Stick it to the man. Many of us have been taught to be wise with our money, frugal in our spending. Why pay more than you have to, right? As with many concepts, this less-for-more mentality has been ca… overly_t…

  • How To Avoid Falling In Love Instantly, it caught my eye. I knew exactly why. I'm semi-philophobic. But that's not to say that I'm not in love. Or am I? Wait, too personal. Anyway, paraphrasing from the articl… Ms…

  • I'm a Pro-Lifer, But I Have To Have an Abortion For all of my adult life I have been a pro-life advocate, and I still am. I recently found out that I was pregnant. To detail the circumstance that my life has become in…

  • I learned that forgiveness is a powerful thing. Once you forgive someone, you feel this huge load being lifted off of your shoulders, and then you can sleep at night. But if you don't forgive someone, it will eat at you,…

  • Crush 101 -OR- "It's just a little crush..." We've all dealt with them, either as the crusher (subject) or the crush (object). Lord knows I've played my fair share of both roles. But right now? Right now, I'm the cr…

  • Sex Sells, But Who's Buying It? I saw a few recent ads for Bebe, and I was surprised at how sexualized the models were. If the clothing store's target audience is women, then aren't the ads a little off target? I……

  • Increasing Your Dating Number Back when I was between the ages of 16 to 19, I went out with approximately 100-150 girls. I only know the number because my mom counted and I was over 100 when I graduated … T…

  • Decoding Area Codes (Greater Los Angeles Area Edition) As someone from southern California, I can say that we’re the most superficial people on the planet! Our superficiality is best exhibited in our area code hierarchy…

  • Tim Burton's Alice In Wonderland Will Rock People may jump out at me when I say this - but Twilight was not the best book-to-movie adaptation ever made. I may be biased in this though, seeing as I never became a huge Tw…

  • Pledged: The Secret Life of Sororities... but not all of them Some of you may have heard of the book Pledged by Alexandra Robbins. A New York Times bestseller, the book takes a look in to the "secret life" of sororities.…

  • Broke? You’re not broke, you big baby - quit your bloodclot cryin. I am SO sick of hearing twenty-somethings complain about how broke they are. You young ass, fiscally irresponsible so-and-so's are making me mad. I know…

  • Public Displays of Aggression My husband and I were in line behind this couple arguing while waiting in line to get their drinks and popcorn for the movie. From what I understand, the girl was pissed off at th… d…

  • The The Impotence of Proofreading Has this ever happened to you? You work very horde on a paper for English clash And then get a very glow raid (like a D or even a D=) and all because you are the word¹s liverwurst &helli…

  • So, you wanna make top blogs? Here's how you do it...<LI>Send friend requests to all the top bloggers. Just go down the current list of top blogs and send them all a request. <LI>Comment on their … j…

  • Who's the better Joker: Heath Ledger Or Jack Nicholson? Heath Ledger solidified himself as a star before the now infamous Joker role. But there are people out there who still believe Jack Nicholson was the better Joker.…

  • Why Do You Starve? I have been asking myself that alot lately. I have been questioning the various reasons I could have for doing this, scraping some and holding on to others. Most of the time I don'… LyingIsAFash…

  • How to be an Amazing manager! Stupid Manager tricks I've run across at one time or another: Radiate stress. Tighten controls on meaningless details to show you're in charge. Write long emails with a lot of inst… C…

  • What Your Name Says about Your Attractiveness If I hear a name that I associate an "ugly" face with, I automatically think that person is ugly. For instance - I could never date a man named Homer - sorry, Mr. Simpson, bu…

  • asian mother = mc² my asian mother is literally comparable to an atomic bomb. observe the following: 1) "derives its destructive force from nuclear reactions" the straw the broke the camel's back. i… cluelessazn1…

  • a perfect solution for the US economy A Chinese idiom says that the one who unties the bells should be the one who has fastened them. I find this idiom very useful when solving the problem of the present financial cris&h…

  • I'm 20 and Having My 4th Baby Even though I was on birth control, I am pregnant not for the first, second, or third time, but the fourth. Yes, the fourth. This will make my fourth child at 20 years old. Now, I… m…

  • Do you think it is easier to forgive the faults of beautiful people? Am I the only person who remembers when Angelina Jolie was an incredibly creepy person? Don't get me wrong, she seems like a very well put together per…

  • What would this generation be without cell phones Is it really possible to get to know someone completely over texting? Can you become best friends through texting? Can you really have a texting relationship and nothing…

  • 2009 Oscars Red Carpet Fashion The 2009 Oscars Hollywood red carpet is incredibly exciting, as fashionistas everywhere want to see what starlets are wearing on one of the biggest nights in American pop culture. ……

  • Bulimia is oh so very cruel. She'll lure you in with her slimy fingers and purr, "Aren't you so hungry love? Don'tcha want a nice feast? You can have all the food in the world, and I'll protect you from thos… be…

  • Life would be better if we all cheated... You hear it everyday, the story of a man or woman cheating on their significant other. And it is always said what scum they are for doing so. But what really makes it cheating?…

  • Are Green Eyes Rare? The other day in my Psychology class, the professor divided the students into two different groups: blue eyes and brown eyes. The blue eyed people were to go to the right of the cl… lovelyish…

  • Slumdog Millionaire Is Really The Story of My Life As the movie played on the screen, I saw my life flashing in front of me. Today I finally saw Slumdog Millionaire, and realized how much my life resembled that of Jamal…

  • Rules of Xanga I stumbled upon a copy of the official rules of Xanga-- and we all thought they didn't exist! Some of these are pretty scary... we should all watch our backs very carefully The "U… AirForceVirgin

  • I'm Being Manipulated by My Ex Let me tell you that when you're done reading this, you'll think the answer to my problem is obvious... however, the obvious and literal answer is the ONE answer I can't accept. We……

  • I Hope Obama Can Do Something About My Weight Problem I know a lot of people who eat more than I do and don't appear to have a weight problem, and I am hoping Obama can do something for those of us who are doing all the…

  • Racism On Thursday, I stood in line at the gas station and witnessed the verbal assault of the Middle Eastern cashier. A black man was at the window with a doughnut and balked at the pric… Automaton_Emotion

  • Girls Don't Like Me! I don't have many female friends, not counting online (that's a whole different territory). I don't give females grimacing looks, I'm not the type to judge a woman solely on what s… lovelyish…

  • A Lesson Before Writing The New York Post can scream all day long that they didn't mean for this cartoon to be racist, but that doesn't matter now. Krissy_Cole

  • Are you a carrot, egg, or coffee bean? I heard an interesting story a while ago on the radio, and it's stuck with me ever since. Now that I'm maturing and trying to "find myself", this story has become more prominent in&…

  • My Gay BFF And I Are Close; My BF Is Concerned My boyfriend and I have been together for about seven months; we're doing long-distance right now and are both in the military. We love each other, he likes my friends and…

  • 3 Life Lessons from Chess There are a lot of analogies between chess and life that I've learned since back when i was the president of Chess Club in highschool. So, i want to share with you three of these … Jaded…

  • RapeLay (or, WTF Japan?!?!?!) A video game has been created in which the user does nothing but rape women. I'll say that again in case you didn't get it the first time. THERE IS A VIDEO GAME THAT EXISTS IN WHI… C…

  • How I Ruined A Girl's Valentine's Day World Series Film and a six pack of Sam Adams Boston Lager. It was going to be a blast. Moose could not wait to have a coldy and watch a great baseball game. Imagine then, my f&h…

  • What is your earliest memory? How old were you at the time? Once when I was learning to tie my shoes, my first father and I were going to a pet store to see about a baby monkey. The cancer was in his brain by then. I kne…

  • "I Wish I Could Lay Eggs..." Dinner tonight, we expected, was going to be like dinner every other night. Disgusting caf food, moans about midterms, and the annoying lack of ice tea in the drink machine. But no… Se…

  • He Bought Her A Promise Ring; She Doesn't Wear It So a friend of mine has been dating this girl for a couple of years now. He's crazy about her, and I thought she really liked him, too. That is, until the other day. Th…

  • Be Extraordinary The truth is, being extraordinary is very difficult. It means surpassing everyone else at something, being the best at what you do, no matter what it is. Everyone wants to be succe… Yosho

  • Coming Out Don't worry, this isn't a bait and switch title. I really am writing about coming out. Before I start my actual post, though, there are two things we need to establish. <li&g… repressedwriter

  • Burkas: It Does Bother Me! The image of a woman in a burka is a highly disturbing one for me. Not to sound like an ignorant person judging another culture, but these women do not have a choice of lovelyish

  • You Used to Love Me... What do you do when you come to the realization that you are the one doing all the heavy lifting in a relationship? Now realize that when I say "relationship", this can mean differ… Contempo…

  • My friend count During the past couple of years, my social network has more than doubled. It ballooned from around 200 people upon my high school graduation to over 500 at the present moment. But… MuseErato

  • Dear Mr. President I feel that I am drowning, not in work, not in sorrow, but in debt. You see, I made the decision to go to college and get a degree. That degree cost me close to $100,000. Present TheKish

  • The Deep Post or The Shallow Post? So you spend an hour and create a beautiful post that is dripping with your soul. Hours tick by, and you sit by the computer monitor waiting anxiously for the response. Usually,&hel…

  • Recover Your BF's Deleted Texts for $149?! Apparently, there is some device that can read your SIM card and everything on it. It can transfer data from one SIM card to another. (That might be useful.) It can back up phon…

  • My Boyfriend Tried To Force Me Into Getting The Birth Control Pill I had a HUGE, almost-year-long fight about birth control with an ex-boyfriend of mine. He wanted me to take them. I said hell no every time he brought it…

  • Christians VS. Atheists 10 Reasons Why Christians Believe In God 1 - He's changed their life and they have experienced a spiritual cleansing of their sins. 2 - He's answered prayer. 3 - The complex… LSP1

  • Commenting Etiquette While giving my two eprops is a kindly and neighborly thing to do, I never claimed to be either kind or a neighbor, and thus it should not be assumed. Shy___Away

  • Do You Let Your SO Dance with Other People? I'm not a jealous girlfriend at all. My boyfriend gets hit on by girls pretty regularly, and sometimes I'm even there to see the flirty texts. I tend to just laugh them off or…

  • Featured Weblogs I think its time to take a stand against some of the featured content. I realize that this post may make a few people mad, more so if you have been featured in the past month or s… MisFishie

  • Logic Aside, Prayer feels good. "Mom" he says to me through the door that divides us, his voice sounding weak and muffled by the distance. "Can I come in?" he asks as politely as he can muster.I wipe my tear stai……

  • More Americans For Teaching Both For and Against Evolution A recent Zogby poll showed that increasingly more Americans are in favor of teaching the scientific evidence against evolution when the scientific evidence for C…

  • new jersey vernacular the other day my roommate was talking to her boyfriend on the phone about what they were going to eat for dinner that night. she recommended an establishment and said that they cou… Natalia

  • Awkward Situations: When They Holler At You On The Street It's a uniquely degrading experience; an experience that shatters self-confidence needlessly and makes you feel like some kind of whore at the same time. What am…

  • Are Shy and Modesty Character Flaws? Although being shy has its disadvantages, I'm starting to see some good stuff from being shy. I may be afraid of what people will say and think, but the good thing is, I'm aware o&he…

  • It's hard being in love It's hard being in love when all your friends are single. I don't want to talk about my relationship, because I don't want to feel like I'm rubbing my happiness in their face. So w… AlterEg…

  • The Opinion Omelet Face it, there's some kind of opinion on every weblog on Xanga. I don't care what type, what they're blogging about, and what its supposed to mean. What one writer might have in mi… mr_faust

  • Nadya Suleman Wants Our Cash for Having 14 Kids?! I know that there have been many posts about these octopulets already but I just cannot withhold my anger. Not only do I believe that Nadya Suleman is a crazy lady. Okay…

  • Cliches Piss Me Off The day after Valentine's Day is like the day after St. Patricks day, a bad hangover of green ale or like the day after Thanksgiving, and your stuck on a toilet for awhile with a s… iStephanieM…

  • Nerd Fetish If you've known me for more than two seconds, you know I have a nerd fetish. I'm not kidding here. I. Love. Nerds. What is not to love? They're sexy as hell. An intelligent… LucyWrites

  • Does Fighting Really Make Your Relationship Stronger? Everyone says that when you overcome your obstacles, it makes you stronger. But does that kind of statement apply to relationships? I once heard that if a couple can…

  • How Xanga made me a healthier, happier person. This year has been one of the worst yet, and I'm sitting here finding myself the happiest I've ever been. Yes, if I had the choice I'd change some things, but the fact is, y…

  • Drink the Cold Away.... "I admire addicts. In a world where everybody is waiting for some byline, random disaster, or some sudden disease, the addict has the comfort of knowing what will most likely wait … TRAGedy…

  • I've Slept With More People Than He Has And He's Upset I met this wonderful guy online in January of 2008. I was getting ready to move to Europe and he was from the UK. We were just friends and took time to get to know e…

  • If I had a Valentine... I was thinking tonight, what would I do if I actually had a Valentine tomorrow night? I prefer romantic simplicity. I would much rather go out to dinner at a jazzy restaurant on a … jediwa7…

  • Men Don't LIke Skinny Women, They Don't Like Overweight Either There's a misconception I keep hearing that men only like skinny women. Men don't want women who are skinny, that's what the media tells women and women eat…

  • I'm seeing red (condoms)!!! A local store put up a creative Valentine's Day display in their storefront windows. The display was a giant red heart, fashioned out of wrapped condoms. The intent is to promote A… Bar…

  • hoo-has and "baby" dolls one thing that has been really getting to me lately is how our children are dressing, especially young girls. i blame Bratz. that's right. i don't blame Barbie. I blame Bratz. let'… sarahf…

  • The Real Reason Girls Wear Hot Underwear I never gave much thought to my underpants when I was a kid. They seemed straightforward enough. Ranking them was easy. Plain white obviously took lowest billing. Bright colors we…

  • To the Woman Who Changed My life, and her baby. I visited the cemetery today with the same thoughts.. this time I wrote it down for her. From my heart, to my hands to the fire. You will never be forgotten. To my neigh…

  • Oct-Mom & Taxes TheTheologianscafe posed the following question: "Does it annoy you that your tax dollars are supporting a woman that keeps on having children?" Automaton_Emotion

  • Burkas: It Wouldn't Bother Me... Seriously it would not bother me if everyone was forced to wear Burkas (Sure send the hate mail...you know you want to) Covered is so much more beautiful then showing everyone and &hellip…

  • Pink Crayons, Disappointment, and the Explained Ache When I was in Kindergarten, I had a good friend who we’ll call Julie. Julie and I were as close as you could be, while sharing blocks, mashing up things, and coloring…

  • Her name was Sonia. She was Hispanic with long dark hair and big brown eyes. She was a graduation senior. I met Sonia my second semester of college. I was a sophomore by credit hours, and I was enr… Power_Range…

  • I Am A Total Celesbian My best friend and I decided that I'm what we've coined a "celesbian" - it's pretty self-explanatory. So here's my list of top ten ladies (in no particular order) and why I'd go fo… datingis…

  • My Scars Remind Me.. People will stare. People will whisper. Some who are brave enough will even ask me. I remember back in eighth grade.. A girl approached me. "Do you slice yourself?" My face gr… TakingxOve…

  • Women and the Draft I'm going to preface this post with this statement: I think that no one should ever be drafted, but if for whatever reason this into_the_lens

  • I'm Confused. He's Gay So They Won't Let Him Donate Blood? Why Not? Last night at a work meeting, I tried to convince the staff to come with me and donate blood at a drive being held on my campus. Some were easily swaye…

  • Fortunate..Is what I am, Really...I mean it. "Can I borrow your lighter?" I ask him. That's where it started. A simple act of kindness. Several others apparently had the 'Smoker's Mishap" and he turned out to be the on…

  • "I Broke Up With Him 'cause He's Not Enough Like Edward." I hear all sorts of ridiculous stories -- apparently, cashiers are like bartenders that way. We hear way more than we want to. Like the story of the charming you…

  • Apparently My BF's Blackberry Is Magically Sending Him P**n Last night I found emails relating to one-night stands and fooling around with random females on my boyfriend's computer. His sent folder was filled with emails…

  • My Dad Has More Facebook Friends Than Me. A few weeks ago, I got a friend request from my dad. Of course I clicked "Ignore." I'm more than happy that my dad has embraced the whole Web 2.0 Social Networking movement, but…

  • The Con of Christianity I have no issue with the most basic principles of Christianity. Love your neighbor, do unto others what you would have them do unto you, God loves everyone, we are all equal. How… EarthsA…

  • Why Women Will Always Look Older Than Men Put one male and one female together, both aged 40 years, and what do you get? You will probably find that the majority of men will look much younger than the women. This is beca…

  • Real life friends infringing on my online persona? You know me...okay, so thats a lie. You don't, and thats the point. Normally I get my kicks being slightly more campy than a singing drag queen at a Cub Scout convention…

  • We are people and we just want to be heard. There are things in life you can change and there are those you cannot. I've put a lot of effort into erasing where I've come from. One of those silly things you can't change.…

  • I'm Just Not That Into Her - Now I Have to Tell Her So So I have gone out with this girl a couple of times and chatted with her on the phone on several occasions. I have decided that I do not want to pursue a relationsh…

  • TUTORIAL: TRUE Status This is by no means the end all/be all of tutorials on earning your TRUE badge. But I hope it will give some of you a better understanding of the process. Plus, there was some conf… MyxlDove…

  • Sex In My City... For a while, the NYC nightlife scene was inundated with girls that had recently graduated from college and moved here from various parts of the country: LA, Seattle, Chicago, Portl… MaximMan

  • City Bus: 'There's Probably No God' and Other Faith-Related Announcements So, did you hear the one about the atheists who decided to become evangelists? That's right, there were some anti-God folks in England who got tic…

  • Embarrassing Friends I have a xanga friend who sent me a message recently and told me she was embarrassed to have me as a friend because of some of the content on my site. Apparently she has a new boy… TheTheolog…

  • Being hit by a woman makes a man weak? Some of the secretaries in the office I work in were discussing Chris Brown and Rihanna. One of them pointed out that if Rihanna had been the one to hit him first and he turned her&…

  • Stop Whining About Valentine's Day Some will say I have no right to say what I'm about to say, being that I am currently happily coupled. To which I say, Bularki. I was saying this exact same thing when I was twen&hell…

  • The 10 Types of Women Bathroom-Users Number 10: The GermoPhobe Kicks the stall door open, takes the time to actually use on of those seat covers,carefully clings to her purse to have it not touch anything. She uses a &he…

  • This is a nightmare no one should have to experience! And yet, people today--in this advanced society of ours--still suffer the cruel and wholly undeserved punishment that is the Toilet-Paperless Toilet Paper Roll! Unfor…

  • The Ten Kinds Of Urinators Number 10: The Germaphobe - these are the guys that apply Purell to their hands before entering the bathroom, they then proceed directly to the urinal, taking extra care not to tou… manc…

  • Attention Xanga! If there is one thing I will never understand, it is the need of some people to go to other people's blogs with the sole, exclusive purpose of tearing that person down. Not for any… Garistotle

  • Wal-Mart's Got Talent ... Let me tell you, I was not looking forward to my nine hour shift. That is pretty much my day at Wal-Mart started - cranky. However, that changed and quickly when I met one of the… into_…

  • Single? What Are You Doing for V-Day? Valentine's Day sucks when you're single. Don't try to deny it. Everyone else around you is happy and in love and you're the one that has to pretend everything is okay and that y&h…

  • Officially Anti-American Government Before you start calling me a commie, please read. What is wrong with Americans? We talk about being the land of the free. We talk about how strong we are, and yet we let our gove&hel…

  • I am not your racial clown. No one likes to be made fun of-- to be the butt end of a joke. It's not that I don't have a sense of humor, but it's just when you tickle me, or any other member of my race as a po… hug…

  • I'm a Boy and I Wear Mascara So, as I revealed in a recent post, I wear mascara. I have become much more comfortable with sharing this fact. It is something that I have been doing since the beginning of 2009. … lo…

  • (Xanga) Love Story Happy Valentine's Day, Xanga! I got bored at work and thought I'd write a song for you. (Audio at the bottom) <LINK style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana" href="file:///C:%5CUsers%5COwn… wherethefish…

  • Mi Confesion Tu belleza me ha captivado. Your beauty has captivated me. Me ha captivado tanto que estas enterrada en mi corazon. It's captivated me so much that you have become embedded in… AilinCorazon

  • Does Anyone Actually Like Hopeless Romantics? I was recently with a clingy guy, and at first, I thought the whole overaffectionate thing was sweet...almost endearing. Soon, I learned otherwise.He wrote me love letters an…

  • MY MOM IS DEAD In just under a month I'll be marking the 10th anniversary of my mom's death. I was 15 (almost 16) when she passed away. Her death has affected me more than any other singular ev… hubbaduh

  • The Xanga Maps Project ---Disclaimer: All claims hereafter contained in this post may be grossly overexagerated. The author accepts no responsibility for injuries or harm caused as a result of participat… Melancho…

  • My Friends Were Shocked to Hear I'm a Virgin I was in a class with my best friend, and we had free time and the subject of love came up. The six girls I was talking with were saying how they absolutely knew they were in…

  • The best girls don't date I've always wonder why the best girls never seem to date or have boyfriends. There's soooo many girls on campus who are sleezy or rude or high maintenance BUT they always have guys… beaut…

  • The PMS Survival Guide Let's get this right. PMS is not caused by men. What is PMS? It's Pre-Menstrual Symptoms- Symptoms that occur up to two weeks before your period is due. healthkicker

  • I Hate Valentine's Day. I know what you're thinking, Valentine's Day is a day for relationships and expressing our love for one another. So then, what is every other day for? If you ask me, Valentine's D… jenn714…

  • Dear Xanga Crush: Before We Meet... We've all heard the horror stories of meeting someone on line and getting your heart involved only to meet them and find out they look nothing like their profile picture.I would im&he…

  • Lonely? Hardly. Famous Singles in History Once again, St. Valentine's Day is drawing near. And once again, Cupid can kiss my cute caboose.In honor of Single's Awareness Day this year, instead of my usual bitter rant, I t…

  • Being 80 when your kid is 20... I heard a story about a woman of 60 being pregnant with twins. I can't find the related article right now, which is bizarre... but I'm sure it will appear on cbc.ca in the next fo……

  • Maybe you are real G, in the suburbs... ...BUT DONT BRING THAT MESS 'ROUND ME! So I know this guy, he is a frail little man. Not all that big in stature. And he lived a comfy sheltered life. Now, I tell you all of this…

  • Ethics of Infertility -The California Octuplets Is it unethical to provide fertility treatments to someone who is not infertile? The recent newsbreak that the 33-year old woman who gave birth to octuplets already has 6…

  • Modest Is The Hottest If you're like how I was, you had a hard time accepting the fact that some churches wanted the women to dress conservatively or modestly. You probably thought, "Why can't the men j… ISpeakLif…

  • Perfectly Flawed. (pictures.) This is extremely personal, this is my entire heart, laid out for you to see, and if you don't like it, then thats fine. This post has been edited, over and over again. This was or… D…

  • Advice Needed: I’m Close to Abandoning the Christian Faith I don't think that you have to be a Christian for God to answer your prayers. Am I being a hypocrite? With the title, I'm not saying I'm abandoning my relationsh…

  • "You must be home schooled." You have no idea how much that one little sentence gets on my nerves. I've heard it a thousand times, and each time it stings, echoing and thundering in my ears, just as hurtful a… Da…

  • The Day my Life Changed I went to a Lose it for Life seminar in the spring for emotional eating. While I was there something inside me cracked open. Slowly, every day this deep wrenching pain works it's… seedsow…

  • I Used To Be Pretty I'm only eighteen, and I think I've already hit my "pretty peak." I've always thought beauty would come later in life, that like Alexis Bleidel, I would blossom with age. I assume… lovelyish

  • "In Love" and Chasing the Happy Feelings Man, people really make a joke out of love.In my work I see a lot of people who at some point, believed they were "in love". They were certainly so in love they got married or jus…

  • Secrets To A Happy Marriage Two years ago today I married the man of my dreams. I feel like ever since, people are just patiently waiting to see the "Honeymoon Phase" end. I know we've all heard those "rumor… mrs…

  • My Boyfriend Is Giving Me Up for Lent My boyfriend and I are both very religious. He's Roman Catholic and I'm Lutheran, so immediately, our religions clash. We've both made the decision to remain virgins until we're ma&h…

  • Why I Forgave My Rapist Who do you need to forgive? There is a misconception of forgiveness. Some people think that forgiveness is about doing something for the person who has wronged you. Or they thi… repress…

  • Someone Is Failing Us... I guess before i start this post i should clarify who the "us" in question is. By us i mean veterans. And while this could apply to veterans from many of the conflicts the U.S. has… Torri…

  • 5 Things You Learn In College They Never Taught You In Orientation College orientation can be exciting. You get a jist of how college life will be (a crash course if you will)…Thats why we decided to crank out a list de…

  • On Cheating. Select a Target Or, Why, yes. I do know what I'm talking about. I've been in a total number of two relationships my entire life: from seventeen 'til twenty-one, I was with the boy… Kestryl

  • To: The Comment Rec'er Requester If you read this and you think it may be referring to you, then you are probably right. For the record, THERE IS NOT JUST ONE OF YOU!Okay, I don't really mind when I get to the bo&helli…

  • Rules for Men Written by a Tomboy I've always seen those "rules for men by women" lists online, but whenever I read them, I think, "Wow, this really doesn't apply to me!" I've never assimilated myself with the rest&helli…

  • Cause of Death: Stress and/or Depression Resulting from Compulsive Shopping Many of us like to shop, whether we're men or women. Of course, shopping is an activity that is most likely affiliated with the role of being a…

  • Make Your Choice. Life or Death. Sink or Swim. I want to start over. I regret my life up to this very second. If I could go back I would. To anyone who’s ever felt alone. To any home coming queen who secretly throw…

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